Date Everything! Guide | How To Find Harper

Here's how you can find and romance Harper and know all of her endings

Game Guide by Ornstein on  Jun 24, 2025

Harper, embodied as a wicker laundry hamper, resides in the laundry room and offers one of the more emotionally complex narratives in Date Everything. Her deep attachment to the laundry that arrives in the room stems from past experiences, and interacting thoughtfully with her can lead to vastly different outcomes. 

This guide details every step required to locate Harper and secure each of the Love, Friends, or Hate endings, ensuring that players can navigate her story with confidence.

How to Find Harper in Date Everything

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Harper only shows up in the laundry room, where a wicker basket stands in for her. She never goes past this area, so going to the laundry room every day in-game is necessary to start a chat.

How to Get the Love Ending With Harper

In order to achieve the Love ending, each interaction must be handled with care. Harper and a minor character, Dirk, have a conversation during their first meeting, which sets the tone for the relationship's problems.

First Encounter

When Harper is first approached, she and Dirk are engaged in a heated dispute. Dialogue options should be chosen to demonstrate empathy without overstepping boundaries.

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Second Encounter

On the next visit, Harper and Dirk are again in conflict. Choosing answers that offer help or support helps to build trust.

Third Encounter

The fight between Harper and Dirk has become normal at this point. After the fight, players will be able to talk to Dirk personally and offer support while also probing his feelings. 

Fourth Encounter

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This meeting requires taking a definitive stance. One choice provokes both characters to recognize their faults and momentarily embrace one another, urging the player to depart.

Fifth Encounter

In the final Love-path interaction, Harper and Dirk look to the player for advice on how to proceed. Responses should focus on advocating for therapy and self-reflection, culminating in a declaration of love.

How to Get the Friends Ending With Harper

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Follow the same series of encounters as the Love ending. During the final dialogue, choose "Why don't we just be friends?" to achieve a platonic resolution.

How to Get the Hate Ending With Harper

Progress through the identical steps outlined above, then on the last prompt, select "You need to be alone for the rest of your life." to secure the Hate ending.

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